The theme for April continues! Becoming Stress-Free by learning from the best.
Had some technical issues when visiting my family in Sweden so this post will be published a couple of days late. Sorry for that ❤
This one will be a good one and we will focus on ourselves and how reading and books/blogs can help us decrease the stress we are feeling due to our fear of the unknown.
How is your relationship with books? Are you a book reader or maybe Kindle? I really don’t enjoy the digital version of books but some books are really cheap and there is no way I can miss it!
In this post, I am mainly going to talk about the therapeutical aspect of reading (mainly) books gives us. Obviously, I will talk about the business and self-improvement books that can help you build your business or blog.
The unknown stresses us (Surprised?)
That is usually the block that we have and the underlying feeling of shame and fear to most of our resistance to anything new.
Shame is a big one when it comes to emotions.
It mixes up with the fear of doing wrong and when people won’t acknowledge you and the shame around it. Also the shame around being successful! That’s is a reality too, unfortunately.
Usually, we are held back by the fear of taking action.
Most of us won’t take that first step into something if we feel we are not the expert on a subject. We ALWAYS have to be perfect before we do anything, right? WRONG!
Those who wait will lose, big time! Yes, time indeed.
When we feel that we are missing information about things, what do we do? We google ? (Actually, a new trend is to Pinterest it! Trust me on this one and search for anything in Pinterest and see it for yourself.)
We All Need to Educate Ourselves
We instantly feel better when we are filled up with information. Not that we need it but that fear of “What if…?” keeps us locked in it.
When we search for information it is usually blog post, articles, books and sometimes courses (if you need to take action).
There are many books and courses out there that will help you to involve and get you better at what you do. It’s only a matter of finding what is right for your at the right time.
But then again, don’t fall into the trap of “I need to learn more” mindset block and miss out on taking action. Learning becomes our new trap. Don’t do it!
What is holding you back?
You need to figure this out. This is very important for you to be able to become successful in what you do. Success is different for everyone and therefore you need to define it for yourself.
You can answer these basic questions to get a bit more clearance on where you are and how you feel about the stuff you have in you.
- Which beliefs do you have about yourself or your work that is keeping you in the same spot?
- Have you thought hard about what is holding you back?
- What action steps will take you to your dream?
- Why are you NOT taking those action steps that will get you a step closer to your dreams?
- What do you lack to get where you want to be? Is learning a posibility?
What part of your life are you at this moment? Are you planning on building a business? Want to start a blog? Have you started but want to increase your traffic? What is your struggle this moment of life?
Are you in search of who you are? Do you want to discover your talents and strengths? Want to know YOU a bit more before starting your business?
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Over to Other Experts
There has been a couple of people who have given away free information and done it so constantly. The information they share is coming from an expert point of view and they do show it by their own lifestyle and work ?
Let’s get to know them one at a time ?
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Let’s start with Ms. Sheila
She has an awesome blog where she was writing mostly about blogging and how to make it better. I am saying WAS because she has recently changed her mission and now she wants to support women to EARN money out of their blogs. She is helping them to take it to the next level.
I am not talking about being good with affiliate marketing, I am talking about real business.
Her E-book Blogging With Purpose is a statement itself and help you to be successful with your blog.
Her previous career decision was to become a Pinterest Strategist, so you can bet that she has some good info up to her sleeves when it comes to bringing traffic to your website.
Online Marketing Queen Ms. Elise
When Elise says something you just do it ? She knows her stuff. Her blog is filled with information for you to earn money and how you can systemize your business while managing it like a boss.
She is a fierce blogger that travels a lot. She is very good at explaining things clearly and easily for you to comprehend and gives you a blueprint of what to do. Just how I like it.
She has two e-books which are mind-blowingly good reviewed and have some major bloggers testimonials!
I mean, I would definitely have a look at it. Elise basically is traveling a lot of her time, what does this mean? This means her passive earnings are enough that she can travel the world without her business being affected.
Your First Affiliate Sale in 24 Hours – Tells you already what it is about.
Sweet Sales Systems – She proofs that her system is working by just living her life anywhere in the world for how long she ever wants. Do I need to tell more?
Email Marketing Genious Meera Kothan
Meera Kothan is known by many and she knows for sure what she is talking about. Having her in my inbox where she shares her tip and tricks about Email Marketing is very valuable to me.
I have her latest book Your First 100: How to Get Your First 100 Repeat Customers (and Loyal, Raving Fans) Buying Your Digital Products Without Sleazy Marketing or Selling Your Soul where she is breaking down how to find your 100 raving true clients as fans. The action steps and questions she has written gives you a clear idea of how to do YOU.
It is very easy to read and understand. Don’t feel frightened that you may not understand due to technical language or so. I recommend it deeply!
Open the way for Kathrin Zenkina
She is the one that put the Law of Attraction on to the map for the masses. Obviously, several people before her have been giving out information about this subject but her book has made people earn lots of money and she is generous by being online and answer questions frequently.
I have the book and going through it and hope to manifest my fair share ? You can see many testimonials about it working and they swear by it. Then again it is about you believing in you to receive that money. Her book is Unleash Your Inner Money Babe: Uplevel Your Money Mindset and Manifest $1,000 in 21 Days
If you are new to manifesting please head over to my blog where I break it down into small pieces for you to understand it easily.
Natalie MacNeil Builds your Business
You may not have heard Natalie and her blog but EVERYONE knows about her book!
If you are interested in building a business (online or not) and want that to be successful then this is the book to read. It goes into detail and girl you need to give some detailed answers to some of these questions. This is very hard to do but so very helpful to be successful.
You need to know who you are talking to and who your client is on the other side, what they want, how they think, how they live etc.
Now let’s wrap this up
We are all human and we are all made out of emotions.
What holds us back from being successful is emotions and mostly fear or shame. Whether we know it or not.
We have a saying in Turkey “Don’t feel the shame of not knowing, fell shame of not learning”. So if you feel you are lacking some info or want to be better at it, then go ahead and LEARN!
Deep dive into yourself and see whats holding you back and why? Appreciate your past and forgive whatever reason is holding you back. MOVE ON!
Now share with me down below how you get over your stress of feeling “I don’t know enough”. Teach us so that we can learn!
Feel free to share who you are following to learn! I would love to have a look ?